Discover Winning Ways to Win Your Ex Back!
By GUEST WRITER Ilona
Your ex very
unceremoniously dumped you after what appeared to be a happy relationship. Apart from the unbearable loneliness you
are experiencing, it's the depression, the anxiety, the anger, and that terrible, terrible sadness that are driving
you insane. Added to that, is the awful thing of not knowing why your ex dumped you. How do you find out what made
your ex leave you, and more importantly, is there any hope, that you can ever win your ex back?
While no one can give
you a definite guarantee that you can get your relationship back on track again, they can give you ways and means
to try to win your ex back. These tips, if carried out correctly, will definitely raise your chances to get the
love of your life thinking that dumping you was the biggest mistake of his/her life.
The fact that you
don't know why your ex dumped you, could mean that there is something about yourself that you are either ignoring,
or honestly are not aware of, that made your ex walk out on you. Are you a possessive type of person? Do you fly
into a jealous rage if your ex speaks to a member of the opposite sex? Do you tell lies, and do you flirt with
members of the opposite sex?
These are really
serious faults, and if you have any of them, then it is crucial that you do something about them immediately. It's
no good either, that you simply acknowledge that you are guilty of any of the above - you have to actually DO
something that will eliminate them from your life altogether. You see, if you really want to win your ex
back, you will have to be able to prove that you will NOT be doing
these things anymore, or your ex will simply ignore your attempts to get him/her
Should you contact your ex? Most definitely
This will probably
stun you, but if you even try to make contact with your ex at this point in time, you can forget about ever getting
your ex back. Why? Because, if you think about it carefully, and are absolutely honest with yourself, you will
realize that your ex is in no mood at all, to see you or speak to you right now.
Remember, you drove
your ex nuts with whatever it was that you were doing wrong, and he/she walked away from the relationship to get
away from you. Why on earth would he/she want to speak to you so soon after the breakup? It's crazy to even think
FIRST figure out what
it was that you were doing wrong, and FIRST fix those problems - then you will have a much better chance of
persuading your ex to have a chat with you. In any case, while you are sorting your own problems out, it will give
your ex time to simmer down and think things over on his/her own, without any interruptions from
Apply these steps in
the order that they appear in this article, and you will definitely double your chances to win your ex
back. Give it a try - you could very well get the love of your life
back, and become a better person in the process!