Eager To Get Your Ex Back? Find Out How To Do It Fast!
By GUEST WRITER Ilona
Being in a relationship with
someone you love is absolutely fantastic. Life is perfect - you have found the ideal person to spend the rest of
your life with - an absolute dream come true! However, all it takes is one thing that can destroy that life of
bliss in a few seconds, and you suddenly find yourself all alone.
Dealing with a broken heart is one of the hardest things to be faced
with, and most times makes you eager to get your ex back into your
life as quickly as possible. The
following these few tips have proved time and again that they really work - exes cannot resist the urge to
reunite with the person they have broken up with!
Don't wallow in self-pity - Yes, you are going
through a stressful time at the moment, but feeling sorry for yourself will only get in your way. You
will not be able to concentrate properly, and it will slow down your efforts to get your ex
Keep to yourself, and
leave your ex alone - This does sound like weird advice, especially since these are tips that are supposed
to help you get your ex back fast, but it is very important that you follow it. Let your ex get over the
trauma of the breakup his/her way, and you do the same - it's all part of the healing process. Do whatever
you really enjoy doing, and don't try to make any contact with your ex - yet.
When you are out with
your friends, you will bump into your ex at some time or another. Control the urge to
fling yourself into your ex's
arms - he/she will not be
impressed, and you will look like an utter fool. Instead, give your ex the impression that you are
perfectly happy - make him/her think that the breakup has done absolutely nothing to dampen your
cheerful spirit. This behaviour works like a bomb to make your ex wonder whether or not you have
decided to get on with your own life.
Don't jump for joy if
your ex suggests that you stay in touch - Even though you will feel like singing at the top of your voice
if your ex seems anxious to stay in touch with you, keep a tight rein on this feeling, and simply agree
casually. This might prompt your ex to ask you out on a casual date - instead of agreeing even before
he/she has finished asking the question, say rather, that you are a little busy, but maybe you can get
together some other time.
Follow these four
steps, and you will likely get your ex back quite
fast. He/she will be absolutely
dumbfounded! You are not crying your eyes out, you did not almost faint from pleasure when you spoke to
him/her, you weren't ecstatic at the thought of going on a date with him/her, and, to top it all, you seem to
be very busy - all the time!
Your ex will become
so curious, that he/she will start speeding things up by making contact with you, and asking you right out to get
back together again as soon as possible.