Effective Ways to Get Your Ex Back!
By GUEST WRITER Ilona
One of the worst things to experience in life is a
broken relationship. One day your life is filled with bright sunshine and brimming with love, and the next day,
after some or other disagreement, everything is gloomy, dark, and very depressing. From being a vibrant, happy
person, you suddenly become a nervous wreck, unable to perform the most basic of activities.
The further you get
into this article, you will realize that the tips you are getting are very common, but you can rest assured
that they are very effective ways to get your ex
Hold yourself back - don't be
As keen as you are to
get your ex back, you must understand that it is vitally important that you are patient. Trying to rush the process
along will spoil things completely. You and your ex will not have had enough time to get over the break up, and
there is a real danger that you will argue again at this stage.
Keep your emotions in
You are so wound up
now, that you are sure to burst out crying if you bump into your ex some time soon. Even though it is very hard to
do, you have to stop yourself from having an emotional break down in front of your ex. It will be a total
embarrassment to your ex, and he/she will make a point of avoiding you as much as possible, for fear that you
become an emotional wreck again.
Examine the reasons for your
It is vitally
important that you examine very closely, the reasons why you and your ex broke up. Somewhere along the line, you
were misunderstanding each other, or ignoring each other's likes and dislikes. Whatever the reasons are though, you
have to figure out what they are, and what you can do to rectify the situation before you try to get your ex
Improve who you are
If your ex knows you
to be an angry, jealous, insecure partner, then these could also be factors that played a part in your relationship
coming to an end. You are going to have to make drastic changes to these emotions of yours, and prove to your ex
that you are able to control the way you behave.
The first meeting with your
It doesn't mean that
if you are ready to meet your ex, that he/she feels the same, so you are going to have to handle this very
carefully. Don't call your ex. Instead send him/her a text message, saying that you would like to meet him/her to
talk about the breakup.
You can expect one of
two responses. Either your ex will respond and say something along the lines that he/she is not ready to meet you
yet, or, you won't get a response at all. If the latter happens, then you can probably take it that your ex is not
interested in getting back together again and leave it at that. On the other hand, if your ex says responds by
saying that he/she is not ready yet to meet you, then this is a definite indication that your ex is still
interested in you. There is a good chance that you will get your ex back.