Reverse Psychology - Works Like Magic When You Want To Win Your
By GUEST WRITER Ilona
Can reverse psychology really help
you win your ex back? Well, many people are unpredictable, and it's these people that can make life difficult
for you, because you never know what they are going to do or say next. You might make a suggestion to a person who
is unpredictable, and, instead of saying or doing what you think or hope they will, they react in the exact
opposite way, which is very confusing. When a person reacts in an unpredictable way like this, they are actually
using reverse psychology on you - their whole intention being to confuse you.
This is precisely
why reverse psychology is one of the best ways to win your ex
back - you react in a way that is
totally different to what your ex expects you to, he/she becomes confused, and then curiosity sets in. Now,
the shoe is on the other foot - it is your ex that will be doing all sorts of things to make contact with
you, to find out what the heck is going on. Why exactly would you behave this way?
You see, whenever you
had an argument during your relationship, your ex found it easy to smooth things over - he/she knew exactly what
buttons to press in order to get rid of your anger. If that didn't work, then your ex knew for sure, that sooner or
later, you would not be able to stand the tension anymore, and you would come running back to
Do things differently
now that the relationship is over - you want to get your ex back, so use reverse psychology, and make your ex
wonder what HE/SHE is doing wrong, and DON'T react the way your ex expects you to behave. In other words, keep your
ex guessing, and DON'T go running back - don’t make any contact whatsoever.
Your ex is probably
smiling to him/herself, and counting the hours until you make contact - you are so predictable! Just imagine how
concerned your ex will become when you DON'T react like you used to, and DON'T come running back - it will drive
your ex to the edge of insanity! The waiting will become too much for him/her - your ex will just HAVE to contact
you somehow, to find out what your intentions are, and why you are behaving the way you are. This is when you can
get your ex back, with little or no effort at all.
several benefits to using reverse psychology to win your ex
back. First of all, your ex will realize
that he/she does not know you as well as he/she imagines, and, not seeing your ex for a while, will help
tremendously to get over the hurt and anger you're feeling - the things that everyone goes through after a
In spite of what you
might believe, being apart from your ex is not going to cause your life to become worthless. On the contrary, you
will actually find yourself enjoying your life again, being with your friends and family, and doing the other
things that were put on hold while you and your ex were together. All of these things are part of the all-important
healing process that you have to go through after a break up, before you get your ex back, and all are very
possible, thanks to reverse psychology.