Sex With Your Ex After Your Breakup Will Not Get Your Ex
By GUEST WRITER Ilona
Having sex with your ex is not a
good idea, and most times, will not help you to get your ex back, for a number of reasons. First of all, when
your relationship ended, unless it was by mutual agreement, you were probably both very angry at each other, and
were still licking those painful emotional wounds that are normally experienced after a breakup. This pain and
anger takes a long time to heal, and there is no way that you can separate these feelings and a roll in the hay,
no matter how good the sex was when you were together.
The thing is, if you
were dumped by your ex, you are still more than likely in love with your ex, and having sex with him/her after your
breakup, will only have you clinging to the hope that you may get back
together again. Your ex on the other
hand, will think that sex with an ex is great - a kind of bonus actually - great sex on a regular basis, with
no strings attached. This is a recipe for disaster - someone, and in this case it is you, is definitely going
to get hurt.
Remember, your ex
dumped you, and, if he or she has not given you any reason to think that you will reconcile, has definitely decided
to get on with his/her life - without you. The chances are good too, that your ex might be involved with someone
else by this time, which means that, if you do have sex with your ex, there is another person who is going to get
hurt as well. Your ex will in fact, be cheating on his/her new partner, with you.
Even if your ex broke
up with you because he/she had fallen out of love with you, there is a very strong likelihood that his/her feelings
for you could be re-ignited after experiencing that familiar sexual intimacy with you. You might think then, that
this has helped you to get your ex back, but your happiness will certainly be short-lived.
Your ex might have a slight inclination to get back together
with you again, until he/she remembers
why the relationship ended in the first place, in which case, you will find yourself back to square one again
- without your ex, and with emotions that are in absolute turmoil.
Another reason why
sex with your ex will not help in any way to win your ex back, is because, just like the great sex you had
during your relationship will stay the same between you and your ex, so will the problems that caused your
relationship to end. Aids, of course, and other sexually transmitted diseases are yet another important reason why
you shouldn't have sex with an ex, especially if he/she is dating and having sex with someone else. Don't put your
health at risk - don't have sex with your ex - it will not help you get your ex back, but you could end up getting
much more than you bargained for! It simply isn't worth an emotional anguish you will be going through