Trying to Get Your Ex Back? Learn The Most Popular Mistakes
People Make After a Breakup!
by Emma Audley
Breaking up is a shocking experience that leaves
emotional scars to every one of us. We all have suffered from a breakup at least once in our lifetime. It is why
people understand the desperation and emotional agony broken hearted lovers go through right after a breakup. This
short article is structured to show you ten of the most popular mistakes people make after a
If you want to get your ex back, there are a few things you should
remember not to do. Although it is easy to make those mistakes and everyone is expecting that, keep in mind that
you should by any means avoid making them. It is time consuming, your nerves will be stretched down to the maximum,
and the most affected one in this process shall be our ego.
So, if you are ready to risk all that to get
your ex back, beware of the following things:
1. Manage your anger and impulses. A rational,
calculated person is always in control of the situation, and that is exactly what your lover needs to see if you
want to get your ex back.
2. Don't send any gifts to your partner. You may
want to invest in yourself, not in your ex. There are two reasons to do that:
- if you want to get your ex
back, you can't go on looking like a regular person; your ex is going to have a hard time noticing you.
I'm not saying that you should dress like Lady Gaga to draw your ex's attention, but a bit more care and attention
to how you look like should definitely make you feel better.
- if you don't get back with your ex, you'll
feel sorry for all the wasted time and money. Your ex will feel overwhelmed and won't appreciate your gifts
3. Do not blame your partner for the breakup.
There must be something you've done as well so try not to think about your ex's fault. Concentrate on your mistakes
and make sure you don't repeat them.
4. Don't do anything your ex would expect you to
do after the breakup: don't show any sign of sorrow, anger, desperation or lust.
5. Don't even cry for your ex. Hold your tears
inside and protect your eyes. You'll need that mysterious, deep look when you meet with your ex. Remain calm. It'll
6. Never talk to your ex about the times you had
together. It won't mean anything to the one who has chosen to break away from all that's been between you. Save
your energy for smarter, more inciting conversations. Nostalgic people never have that much audience anyway. So no
"remember that time when...", no "I wish we could go back to what it was and how we were", no "we've been through
so many things. How could you forget so soon?"
7. Never seek for your ex's pity. It is
degrading and so will your ex perceive you if you do that. Pity can't be the foundation of a relationship; nobody
will be with you because they pity you. Your ex is no exception
8. Don't involve anyone else in your attempt to get your ex back.
Keep your family and friends away from sticking their noses. It may be harder to do it after long term
relationships, when you've already met each other's relatives and you have made many common friends. Clear out the
situation and let your friends interfere only in limited situations. Don't let them try to soften your ex's heart.
Only you can do that.
9. Don't promise you'd change if you know you
can't. Once, your ex has fallen in love with you for who you were. People don't change over night, but if they do,
they can't make a complete transformation. If you are the possessive type - for instance - you'll still be jealous
on your ex no matter what. Just don't show it to your lover; it's safer that way.
10. Be strong for both of you. Your ex is also
vulnerable after the breakup, therefore impulsiveness and a critical attitude will make your ex want to stay even
further away from you. Be patient and understand your ex's need of space and time after the separation. It's for
your sake too.
© Copyright Emma Audley,
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