Use Reverse Psychology
and Dramatically Increase Your Chances to Get Your Ex Back!
By GUEST WRITER Ilona
Using reverse psychology is undoubtedly one of the
best ways to get your ex back. Your strange reaction to the broken relationship will be so different to the way
your ex is used to you behaving, that he/she will likely do all he/she can to make contact with you to find out
what is going on. When this happens, it is the perfect time to reconcile.
When you and your ex
first met, there was obviously an attraction, but you knew absolutely nothing about one another. You saw each other
on odd occasions, usually when you were out with your mutual friends, and, as you got to know each other better,
the more you saw of each other. Things grew from then, and you were eventually together all the
As time went by, you
got to know all about each other - your likes and dislikes, what made you happy, what made you sad, and the things
that really made you fed-up. These were good times - you knew each other so well - there were very few arguments,
because you both did all you could to avoid upsetting each other. Then came the day when you had that major
argument - the one that caused your relationship to end, and now it feels as if your world has ended - you want to
get your ex back.
Of course you want
to call your ex, or go around to his/her house to talk things over, but really, this will not help at all - your ex
is just too upset and angry right now, and it will do nothing to get your ex back. Do yourself a favor and try reverse psychology - it will make your ex so curious, that
he/she will be calling you to find out what you're up to.
Remember, your ex
knows exactly how you will react in this situation, because he/she knows you very well, or thinks so, anyway, so
behave totally different to your ex's expectations, and see what happens! If it is your usual thing to give your ex
a call and accept all the blame for the argument, then don't do it - don't phone him/her, and don't take all the
blame for the break up - you were both involved, and are both to blame.
Did you normally
send messages via your friends, or really soppy emails begging for forgiveness - then again, don't do it. Speak to
your friends by all means, but don't get them to tell your ex that you are crying buckets because you are so
unhappy. Instead, do just the opposite, and give the impression that you are having a ball, and that the breakup
doesn't really bother you - this will really make your ex sit up and think - seriously!
idea aboutusing reverse psychology to get your ex back, is to make your ex
uncertain about the breakup, and this can actually turn the tables in
your favor. Instead of you being unsure about how your ex feels about you, it will be him/her that will be
uncertain, and, to answer the many questions that your behaviour is causing, he/she will have to speak to
you, to get those answers.
So, as hard as it
will be to behave differently to the way that you usually do, make the effort and do it - it will be worth it in
the end, because you will more than likely reconcile with your
ex, and get your relationship back on track again too.