Use Reverse Psychology and Dramatically Increase Your Chances to Get Your Ex Back!

By  GUEST WRITER  Ilona Benes

Ilona Benes

   Using reverse psychology is undoubtedly one of the best ways to get your ex back. Your strange reaction to the broken relationship will be so different to the way your ex is used to you behaving, that he/she will likely do all he/she can to make contact with you to find out what is going on. When this happens, it is the perfect time to reconcile.

   When you and your ex first met, there was obviously an attraction, but you knew absolutely nothing about one another. You saw each other on odd occasions, usually when you were out with your mutual friends, and, as you got to know each other better, the more you saw of each other. Things grew from then, and you were eventually together all the time.

   As time went by, you got to know all about each other - your likes and dislikes, what made you happy, what made you sad, and the things that really made you fed-up. These were good times - you knew each other so well - there were very few arguments, because you both did all you could to avoid upsetting each other. Then came the day when you had that major argument - the one that caused your relationship to end, and now it feels as if your world has ended - you want to get your ex back.

   Of course you want to call your ex, or go around to his/her house to talk things over, but really, this will not help at all - your ex is just too upset and angry right now, and it will do nothing to get your ex back. Do yourself a favor and try reverse psychology - it will make your ex so curious, that he/she will be calling you to find out what you're up to.

   Remember, your ex knows exactly how you will react in this situation, because he/she knows you very well, or thinks so, anyway, so behave totally different to your ex's expectations, and see what happens! If it is your usual thing to give your ex a call and accept all the blame for the argument, then don't do it - don't phone him/her, and don't take all the blame for the break up - you were both involved, and are both to blame.

   Did you normally send messages via your friends, or really soppy emails begging for forgiveness - then again, don't do it. Speak to your friends by all means, but don't get them to tell your ex that you are crying buckets because you are so unhappy. Instead, do just the opposite, and give the impression that you are having a ball, and that the breakup doesn't really bother you - this will really make your ex sit up and think - seriously!

   The whole idea aboutusing reverse psychology to get your ex back, is to make your ex uncertain about the breakup, and this can actually turn the tables in your favor. Instead of you being unsure about how your ex feels about you, it will be him/her that will be uncertain, and, to answer the many questions that your behaviour is causing, he/she will have to speak to you, to get those answers.

   So, as hard as it will be to behave differently to the way that you usually do, make the effort and do it - it will be worth it in the end, because you will more than likely reconcile with your ex, and get your relationship back on track again too.


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