Using Reverse Psychology to Get Your Ex Back - It Really Does
By GUEST WRITER Ilona
It is always fun to be around
people who are unpredictable - you never know what they are going to be getting up to next. It is for this very
reason that you should try being unpredictable if you want to get
your ex back - do exactly the opposite to what your ex is expecting you to do, and he or she will be
drawn to you, as if by a magnet. This type of strategy is referred to as
reverse psychology, and is very often recommended by the experts on dating sites.
Now the only reason why they
advise using this method to reunite with your ex is because it works so well. If you have never heard of reverse
psychology, then read on, and you will discover just how good a method it is to get your ex
Remember that when you first got
together, you knew absolutely nothing about one another? Then, as the weeks and months went by, you gradually
got to know each other better an better, so much so, that you almost knew what you were each thinking about
certain things, or what your answer would be for certain questions.
Even when you had an argument,
you knew each other so well that you knew exactly what your reaction would be after you had your tiff. At this
point in time, your ex thinks that he or she knows you inside and out, and is almost making a list of what your
reactions will be now that you have parted company.
If, in the past, you normally
threw a tantrum, and walked out in a huff because you did not get your own way, this is exactly what your ex is
waiting for. He/she is waiting for you to scream and perform that you know you were right, and that you demand
an apology for all the bad things that he or she said to you during the argument that ended the
This is where reverse psychology comes
in - DON'T do what your ex imagines you are going to do. DON'T throw a tantrum when you see your ex - behave
totally different to the way you normally do. Instead, just say a friendly "hi" to him or her, and then walk
away. Whatever your ex was thinking of saying to you has just been cancelled out by this unpredictable
reaction of yours - it has left him or her absolutely off-balance about the whole
If it was a habit of yours in
the past to talk badly about your ex to your friends after you had had an argument, then do just the opposite
now, and make your ex even more confused. Rather talk to your friends about what a great time you had when you
were together, and what a fantastic person your ex is. Even go so far as to say that you feel really bad about
the awful things you said to your ex, and that, as soon as you get the opportunity to, you are going to
apologise profusely to him/her for behaving so badly.
You see, the whole point
of using reverse psychology to get your ex back
after a break up, is to make your ex think differently about you. This creates a strong
feeling of curiosity in your ex, making him or her feel that they did not really know you that well after
all, and that, seeing that he or she still has loving feelings toward you, it might be a good idea to get to
know you a little better, before cutting all ties with you for good.
If you carry on practising
reverse psychology on your ex every time you see him or her, and make sure that he/she only hears good things
about you, then there is no way that he/she will be able to resist making contact with you to talk things over
again. If you are patient enough and strong enough to keep on using reverse psychology after your breakup, then
there is a very good chance that you will get your ex back sooner or later.